Trusting the Detour

Hi there RE-Imaginers! 

I have been doing a lot of intuitive sessions lately where I'm hearing a lot of  clients saying " the rug has been pulled out from under me.  I sure as hell did not expect this, what's in my future and where do I go from here? "

This energy theme is all over the place right now.

This is A shake up - to wake up cycle.  We are going through this in a very profound and noticeable way. Personally and globally. This being the case, I wanted to write something that might help us re-imagine how we proceed with the sudden changes, forcing us to explore different perspectives.

I feel pretty qualified to speak on this, as I have had the rug pulled out so, so many times over the course of my life. I have had to navigate my way out of the intense emotional reactions over which I felt I had no control.    I also have had to do an immense amount of work to finally allow my life to unfold with ease instead of struggle. Long way to get here and a lot of  unloading of old programs and beliefs. I truly and wholeheartedly feel that absolute surrender and the understanding that a much larger, divinely orchestrated plan, is key to allowing our best life to come forward.  It is super important to me to share what I have learned. Hopefully you can avoid some of the painful knocks and find freedom sooner.

ALSO....Big freakin' thank you to my clients ! You continually spur me to new downloaded streams of thought and myself for actually taking the time to get this down somewhere in writing instead of letting it just file itself in some  " will do later " file. ;- )  
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When Life Hands You a No, A Detour or Any Unexpected Plot Twist, Think on These Things...

Sometimes an experience shows up not because it was meant to happen, but because it was meant to unlock buried emotional energy: grief, shame, old disappointments, unspoken fears. Break us open. These moments are not just logistical—they’re somatic. The body, heart, and soul are calling for release. A clearing.  We sense the time has come to unload the old emotion, belief, idea or story that's overlaying onto the current situation. Our job is to first see that there is a current overlay going on ( if there is. ) We need to feel these deep, low frequency emotions, so that they can run through us and move out of us.  Gotta feel it to heal it.  It also may have come to show us that a different path is waiting for us.  First we must let go of the current level of comfort that we are getting from this thing that is slipping through our fingers or no longer making us happy.  

This disappointments and heartbreaks come as quiet invitations. They are telling us to finally let go of something deep that has been festering and affecting us, aching for release.  It’s through this process that we begin to understand the difference between chasing safety, security and power, versus living from trust. We may think we are--choosing or losing a house, a job, a relationship, a path. Perhaps we are being pushed by a force of a greater intelligence, to aid us in looking at our addictions to security, safety or power. Not true soul alignment.  Not inner resonance. Just an ancient need to feel safe, often born from childhood or even lifetimes before.  The small self holds tightly to what it can "GET" not what it can "GIVE  or LEARN"  in order to expand. 

Here’s the paradox:
Real safety does not come from controlling outcomes.
Real safety comes from remembering that we are already held by a divine source, greater than any person, place or thing. 

We are living inside a divine program. We are here in a body, on purpose. We cannot miss what is meant for us, and we cannot be truly harmed—not in the eternal sense.

We are consciousness, continually transforming.
This can be our invitation to higher consciousness.

It is the invitation to surrender the story. To stop gripping. To give the heavy tasks, the impossible timelines, the emotional burdens—to the Universal Manager. / Source.  To only give our attention to what feels light, inspired, joyful. There are plenty of teachings out there—like those through Abraham-Hicks—that remind us: the less resistance, the faster the alignment. As Wayne Dyer stated, what we resist will persist. The less control, the more flow. The more joy, the clearer the path.

Desire doesn’t have to be wrapped in a dramatic saga or deep narratives with lots of story and struggle. In fact that will actually block FLOW.  We don’t need to suffer our way into receiving. The most magnetic energy we can emit is EASE. So when the “no” arrives—through closed doors, broken things, unexpected delays—it may not be punishment. It may be the moment when grace steps in.

What feels like failure is often divine redirection.
What looks like a dead end is often a soul-led invitation to heal.

Will we respond to the invitation and how?

There is a relationship, a house, a dream, a path that is aligned. But we find it not by chasing safety—We find it by coming home to ourselves. We are not behind. We are always becoming. The Universe is always working with us and for us, if we will but surrender our agenda’s and expectations and go for a more fully aligned and truthful life. It always brings us the perfect and right situations, people and events. Ones that are aligned for not only ourselves, but for the whole, as well. IT knows exactly what it’s doing and all of the moving parts involved.  It’s intelligence and intuitive love and empathy far exceeds any current touch me, feel me, feel good, thing on this planet. It is a miraculous energy of Divine Providence and when we allow it to merge with ours, is unmistakable and undeniable.  All it needs is a clear intention from us, the belief that anything is possible, and our refusal to let our minds dwell on the objections and obstacles and just trust in this sacred partnership. Oh and a few fun things on our To Do List. 

Many of us do not have the courage nor the willingness to be this vulnerable to allow ourselves to step into this space and that is Ok. But if we are at the end, the very end of all our small minds agenda’s, plans, intense need for safety, control,  security, and power, perhaps this may be of help to you and something you want to give a whirl.

LET GO and LET GOD, as they say….and go out there and play in the field of gratitude and presence and doing the things you enjoy, yes, you must take action, but presence also, to bring in your dream and watch how what you are wanting, easily and effortlessly shows up without the help of the inner analyst and inner micromanager, who may be trying to run the show.

Since we as humans have such strong tendencies to be run by are old programs  based on our need for safety, control and security, I have provided below the the things we can control and the things might be wise if we let go of.  

What things do we have control of?
Our attitudes, opinions and beliefs
How we feel
Our response to others
What happens with-in us
How we speak to and treat others
Where we give our time, energy and attention
How we let other people and their opinions, actions or side-eyes effect us
The boundaries we set with ourself and others

What are we not in control of?
What others think of us
How others feel and behave
How others react
Other peoples attitude's, perceptions and beliefs
Other peoples boundaries
What happens around us

Once we get very clear on this and only work on what we truly have control of,
( the top 8 ) and go to work on those, coupled with a high vibrational mood I might add, that is what truly pulls in the life and dreams we have been waiting on.

Anyway. That’s my 2 cent’s for today…Trust the freakin' detour !

Reach out to me if you would like an intuitive reading, intuitive therapy, or energy re-alignment to help you navigate a current detour. 

​#yourvibematters #shiftyourshit #trustthedetour 

Peace IN !
Cynthia Spiece
928.257.9588
Cynthiaspiece.com

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All ideologies that I express in my work have been chosen by sifting and selecting information that feels Intuitively spot on to me. My lifelong passion and obsession with all things transformational has seen me in many different situations in life, as well as, studying and applying many different spiritual, religious and inspirational modalities. I do not ask or expect that you take these ideas and beliefs on as your own. I ask that you only take from my work, what feels like a hit for you intuitively, pitch the rest and keep moving toward your Peace, Presence and Power.  This will change the world. One person at a time. 
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